Showing posts with label entertainment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label entertainment. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

10 Tips for Winning at Being Frugal

"Got my mind on my money and my money on my mind." - Youngbloodz

Yup, I just quoted old school rap lyrics. That's how we roll around here. Anyway...my last post was a long winded essay on why budgeting is worth your time. I thought since we've been at it for over half a year now, I'd share with you some of our best tips for being frugal and making your money work for you. The art of telling every penny where to go (in my pocket of course..."find a penny, pick it up, then all day you'll have good luck" and an extra penny!).

1. Generic brand food actually tastes the same on the majority of products. Try it, you'll be surprised and save a bunch of money on your grocery bill. I avoid generic tuna, am picky about hotdogs, prefer real maple syrup (or at least some large % mix) and have a couple of brand name cereals I really like (because I make a serious midday meal out of cereal...I need it to stick to my bones longer...and I'm picky). That said, we buy pretty much everything else generic. In fact, we are lucky to live near a store that sells SOOO many products in bulk bins, we save a ton of money shopping there and just store in our own containers.

2. Math is your friend. When you are shopping always compare price per unit of measurement. You are looking for the best ratio of most unit of measurement for lowest price. Some stores post this on the labels on the shelves. If they don't, do a rough estimate in your head. Does math hurt? Use a calculator (your phone probably has one).

3. Sell anything you can part with and you really don't need. When you start evaluating things, how often you use them, if you use them, if you are tired of them, if they are valuable, if you can easily replace them etc. you will start to realize you can live without a lot of the stuff you've been dragging around for years. My husband and I are constantly selling stuff. It is really satisfying to get a little money for something that is no longer useful to you and taking up space. Especially in a small apartment with no storage. Have a yard sale, list in the online classifieds. Post it on your facebook. Easy! We just made $150 at a yard sale this weekend and still have lots of stuff left to sell. Use this money to pay off debt! Good way to get the snowball rolling.

4. Cook! Making meals at home will save you so much money. It's also healthier and a good way to have some family time without everyone realizing that's what's going on :) . We go out to eat maybe once or twice a month. It comes out of our regular food budget and means that we get to buy that much less in groceries if we eat out. Also, bringing your own food for lunch is a huge way to save money! Leftovers reheat really well, cut down on waste, and are an easy way to have a healthy, filling lunch.

5. Look for free entertainment. We save so much on entertainment by looking for things that are going on for free. Our local art museum offers a free admission night once a week. Many museums do; check out their websites. Summer is a great time for free music and outside festivals. We have been going to as many of these as possible. We also try to get out and just enjoy the small things more too. An outing to feed the ducks? Sitting outside at the local coffee shop people watching?

6. Volunteer. You may be surprised that volunteering will actually save you money. It is entertaining, it is social, it feels good. And in some instances, if you volunteer for an event, for example a music festival, you can get free admission. My husband and I volunteered for the local folk festival. I will be doing site cleanup and he will be bartending and we will save $100 on the event!

7. Follow your budget. Don't cheat yourself. Once you have spent your valuable time, energy and brain cells on planning a budget, stick to it. This seems obvious, but it can be harder than it sounds. Don't forget to budget in some blow money for yourself. It helps. We each get $25 a month to spend on anything we want, no questions asked. My husband has a hard time limiting himself on this, but I feel like I am doing really well and sometimes have extra money left at the end of the month to roll into the next month.

8. Use envelopes with cash to manage things like food, entertainment, gas and your blow funds. We have noticed a huge difference in the months we used the envelope/cash system vs. the months we used debit. We let $1000 walk away one month using debit because we told ourselves "oh we're fine, there is plenty in the bank account." Sure there is plenty in the bank account, but on our digital budget spreadsheet, that money is actually being saved for things like the dentist, medicine and gifts. In a sense, we were stealing from our own savings. Sad.

9. Talk about money! Many people we know with money problems and debt hate money. They are angry about it, they don't want to talk about it. Once you allow yourself to get past that, and openly talk about it with your partner, your family, your friends, whomever. It is a lot easier to feel in control of your money, your expenses, your debt and your savings. Yes, we still argue about money, but I will say our conversations are much more productive and we are mostly on the same page.

10. Shop thrift shops and yard sales. This is a frugal, budget conscience person's best friend. In many instances "gently used will do". We buy as much as we can second hand right now. Of course we'd love to buy new, but on our just above poverty line income, we can't afford new on most things. I find name brand, designer clothing all the time. Watch for holes/snags/stains/general wear and tear but otherwise you can often win at thrift shops for clothes. We also buy a lot of kitchen items at thrift shops - dishes mostly. Pots and pans we buy new because the non-stick stuff does wear out. It is amazing what soap and water can do. Facebook has lots of local buy/sell groups. Search for your town name & buy/sell/yard sale/garage sale etc. Also shop online classifieds like craigslist. Plug your nose, dive in and you will be surprised and impressed at the treasures you will find. I have found Coach, Bottega Veneta and Gucci among other brands at thrift shops. Treasures people and more pennies in your pocket!   

Have some more tips not mentioned here? We would love to hear them. Please share in the comments! 

Saturday, January 25, 2014

Trying an Oldie but Goodie...

In an attempt to have healthy snacks on hand, I have come to realize that I will have to cook occasionally.  Though, I dislike cooking, over the years, I have come to find easy to make recipes that don't take too much effort or time.  This morning, while I am home alone with my son, who is playing with toys with Cat in the Hat Knows Alot About That and Dinosaur Train on in the background, I am going to make "Vegetable Quiche Cups to Go" which is a recipe I got from the South Beach Diet book.

Recipe ingredients and instructions are:

1 package (10 oz) frozen chopped spinach
3/4 cup liquid egg substitute (or 6 eggs)
3/4 cup shredded reduced-fat cheese
1/4 cup diced green bell peppers
1/4 cup diced onions
3 drops hot-pepper sauce (optional)

Microwave the spinach for 2 1/2 minutes on high.  Drain the excess liquid.
Line a 12-cup muffin pan with foil baking cups.  Spray the cups with cooking spray.
Combine the egg substitute (eggs), cheese, peppers, onions, and spinach in a bowl.  Mix well.
Divide evenly among the muffin cups.
Bake at 350 degrees for 20 minutes, until a knife inserted in the center comes out clean

Quiche cups can be frozen and reheated in the microwave.  Any combination of appropriate vegetables and reduced-fat cheese may be used

Serves 6

Nutrition at a Glance (Per serving):  77 calories, 9 g protein, 3 g Carbs, 3 g Fat, 2 g saturated fats, 160 mg sodium, 10 mg cholesterol, 2 g fiber

So while my kid is hopefully occupying himself, I will be making this for healthy snacks to eat for a few days.  Here's a picture of the completed product.



Once Preston goes down for his nap, I will be cleaning the house from top to bottom because my in-laws will be coming to stay with us for a while starting tomorrow, Sunday.

It's just Preston and I for most of the day.  I'm hoping it is not too windy out today so we can go for a nice walk around town.  The roads might still be slushy, but we'll brave them anyway.  And I'll remember to bring my small camera this time so I can take a picture of something I find interesting or inspirational.  The whole point in buying the heavy duty stroller was because we knew the roads are crappy here.  Better put it to good use.

This is what most of the street corners look like throughout Fairfield



My picture of something interesting and inspirational.  I was inspired to get creative while taking my kid for a walk, since most of the roads are like the picture above.



Saturday, January 11, 2014

Surviving Winter in a Small Town

So this winter has been off the charts crazy here in small town Montana.  One week we are in the single digits and below zero, the next week we have 40 degree temps with 60+ mph winds.  That's what we are facing here today in Fairfield, MT.  The air temperature is warm, but we can't go outside and enjoy it or we'll get blown away in the wind.

This winter has been especially hard because I have a now 17 month old to try and keep entertained daily.  I often find myself praying that he takes a long afternoon nap, so I can brainstorm ideas of how to keep him entertained in the evenings when my husband is busy at church with meetings, Confirmation or Bible study.  I've figured it out so far and way too much tv and netflix streaming is involved, but it's worked.  I started reading Preston the first Harry Potter book, mostly for my own entertainment, but he's actually starting to pay attention when I'm reading too which is fun to see.

As far as outside the home activities:  Preston goes over to the office with day most days in the morning so he has a larger space to play and run around.  I continue to take him to MOPS the 1st and 3rd Thursdays of the month, except if the weather is really really bad.  I belong to a book club which meets monthly that I love and participate in an evening Bible study which I also love.  The rest of the month, I find things to do as I long for spring and warmer weather to come.

For my own entertainment during this craptastical winter, I am reading a lot, brainstorming ideas for my creative space that I'm making for myself down in the basement, once the new carpet is put in, watching movies, and working on getting physically and emotionally healthier.  I've taken up crocheting again while Preston is napping and I marathon episodes of Ugly Betty on netflix.  Yup, I'm surviving, but I'll tell you this:  I am so looking forward to the warmer part of spring, a nice warm summer and a lovely autumn.  F*&% this winter!  We'll all make it through, just like every year and be grateful for warmer weather when it comes.

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

How I entertained a 15 month old by myself for 48 hours.....

It is getting colder outside and snowing at least once a week for the past two weeks in Fairfield, MT. There are not many places to take my son Preston for long periods of time that he can run around in, except the church where Jason's office is. So most mornings, Jason takes Preston with him to coffee time at the local restaurant called Cozy Corner Cafe and then takes Preston to the office with him. Preston runs around the open fellowship hall and then either takes a nap or doesn't before the guys come home for lunch. This does not happen every morning, but most mornings.

It gives me time to get things done around the house, like cleaning or some laundry, or work out and read a bit of the book for book club for a while. Sometimes I work out and then work on one of my many crocheting projects that I'm trying to finish. So what I'm saying is that most days, I get some form of time to myself.

Last night, today and part of tomorrow, it is just Preston and I, while Jason finishes up his last stint at 1st Call Theological Education, which is required for 1st call Pastors in the ELCA. So I am trying to come up with ideas and then implement them to keep Preston occupied this morning and this evening. Luckily this afternoon there is a break for Jason so Preston and I are going to meet up with him and some of our friends for a little bit, so I don't have to worry too much about entertaining him then. I have to run some errands too before and after we hang out with friends this afternoon, so that will burn some time too.

That is the background for the next couple of days...

This morning, in order to take a shower in peace, I put on one of Preston's favorite tv shows, "Super Why". I was able to take a shower and get dressed without him banging on the bathroom and bedroom doors. 30 minutes of quiet so I could get ready for the day. It was amazing. I am now updating this post as he watches a little more tv. Many people would chastise me for using the tv as entertainment so I can get things done around the house and for myself. I say to those people, "Hey, I just got to take 30 minutes for myself with no distractions. I win!"

Okay, free time over. Now time to find something else to entertain the munchkin. I'll report back later today on how things turn out.

Later on yesterday....

I distracted Preston with some more of his favorite shows and then got him ready to head to Great Falls after feeding him lunch. Lunch consisted of a peanut butter sandwich, beets and some pineapple with milk to drink. Then we headed to Great Falls where I proceeded to drag him around all over town. First to Barnes & Noble, then to hang out with friends for a bit at Starbucks. We went to Michaels, ate a Subway for dinner, went to Target and then to Sam's Club. We left the house around 1pm yesterday afternoon. We got home around 8pm last night. Needless to say, we both had a pretty busy day, so Preston basically passed out from exhaustion when we got home and I had the rest of the night to myself to do whatever I wanted.

That is how I entertain my 15 month old on rare occasions. Today is another story. Today he has been entertained with reading books, playing with toys and watching his television programming simultaneously. He is also a bit more needy today, so no putting on his favorite show and having 30 minutes to myself to get ready for the day. Today, I'll probably have to wait for Jason to get home before I'll be able to take a shower, or I can have a screaming, temper tantrum throwing kid bang on the door of the bathroom while I take a shower. No thanks. I'll wait for Jason to get home. Preston and I might go for a quick walk outside today to get out of the house for a few minutes, but it is going to be a more low-key day today.

Entertaining a 15 month old changes everyday. Some days are easy, some days are hard. But everyday is worth it.

Friday, October 4, 2013

Biggest Concerns of the Moment

Some of my biggest concerns of the moment are income and entertainment. Ideally both go hand in hand. Life is too short to be miserable. I have always enjoyed hobbies that earn some income. I am a cellist and have gotten paid as a studio musician on CD's of bands such as Glint and The Milling Gowns, and as a wedding and event musician. I haven't gotten involved in the (surprisingly) thriving music scene on the rock yet as my cello just arrived a few weeks ago. I need to get back into practicing and meet some musicians.

GOAL: practice cello, meet musicians, play music.

I also am an avid artisan. I have dabbled in many forms of arts and crafts over the years (since as far as my memory goes back) and have always sought ways to make a meager income from my creative efforts. In the past several years I have focused my creativity on textile arts and jewelry making. I have a small business, YazBerry Fashion which supports itself and that is about it. Nice to have a hobby that breaks even. Right now since I am between postal codes, my handmade purses and vintage purses are for sale on Etsy, and my handmade jewelry is available on facebook and in a few local craft and gift shops on the rock.  I am slowly starting to meet other artisans and I would love to host skill share gatherings at my home or another venue. I would also like to be able to more than break even with my artistic talents.

GOAL: meet more artists, host skill shares, maybe even teach classes for small fee, get my jewelry into more shops around the rock. One artist I have met has a simple goal of having his work in 100 stores. If he sells just $20 of product per store per day that is $2000 in a day! A simple thought but it could produce amazing results!

I am constantly seeking internet based opportunities to make some income. I just stumbled across this music review website on craigslist today, slicethepie and it seems you can earn on average $0.16 per song review. I haven't tried withdrawing yet but the website seems legit and since I listen to music almost constantly, and LOVE to hunt down new music, I figure might as well get paid to do something I enjoy!

Two month update: I never put in enough time to see if this actually pays out. Conclusion: not worth my time right now. 

GOAL: continue seeking online opportunities to earn income. I would like to seek editing and writing gigs specifically. Have an opportunity for me? Any tips? Anything you do or can recommend? Let us know!